Want To Be a Millionaire? Avoid the Comparison Trap

You probably know Rachel Cruze as the #1 best-selling author of Smart Money, Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money. You may also recognize her from her YouTube vlogs, speaking engagements, and regular appearances on Fox and Friends. And you might know her dad, Dave Ramsey.

Dave and Rachel offer encouraging, challenging, and inspiring advice. And Rachel’s latest book, Love Your Life, Not Theirs: 7 Money Habits for Living the Life You Want, is no exception. What she says can be a game changer—especially when it comes to comparisons and contentment.

In a previous post, I shared a book excerpt that focused on the problem of comparisons. This time, I’m sharing the solution.

Pay careful attention to what Rachel has to say! 

THE CURE FOR COMPARISONS

Too many people allow cultural expectations—that is, other people—to dictate their own values and family priorities. I’ve been there too. I know it’s an empty and endless battle to try to keep up. You feel like a hamster on a wheel, running as hard and fast as you can and ultimately going nowhere. Doing that for a lifetime will leave you completely exhausted. But your life doesn’t have to look like that. There is hope; there is an antidote. There is one and only one cure to comparison living, and that is contentment.

What Contentment Looks Like

In our book Smart Money Smart Kids, my dad and I make the point that content people don’t always have the best of everything, but they make the best of everything. Contentment isn’t a place you get to financially; it’s a place you get to emotionally and spiritually. It’s a peace in your spirit that knows what you have, no matter how much or how little, is enough. Contentment is the inner determination to be happy and fulfilled wherever you are with whatever you have. The Apostle Paul put it like this: “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances” (Philippians 4:11). And, yes, I know this is a lot easier said than done.

I wish I could give you specific steps to take to guarantee your contentment, but I can’t. I will tell you the two big secrets to living a contented life, but before we get there, let’s take a look at what a content person looks like. You may realize that you have some of these people around you already. You may even realize that you are one yourself!

Content People Are Satisfied

Contentment allows you to be in a state of joy and satisfaction. You are happy with where you are in life. That doesn’t mean you don’t have goals for the future or that you aren’t working toward being a better person tomorrow than you are today. It definitely doesn’t mean that you’re stagnant or apathetic, or that you’re choosing to sit around and do nothing new, exciting, and challenging with your life. It just means that you have a peace about your life and a sincere enjoyment about what you have today without basing all your happiness on what you hope to achieve tomorrow.

Since we’re talking about comparisons, I will give you one big tip here: It’s almost impossible to be satisfied with your own life if you’re constantly looking at what someone else has. If you’re struggling to appreciate the blessings in your life and if you’re constantly distracted by the #blessings of other people, it may be time to put some blinders on for a little while.

Shut off the social networks. Stop strolling through the mall. Unsubscribe from all those email newsletters and advertisements that try to convince you how much you’re missing. Spend that time and energy focusing on how much you truly have. Look at your family, your friends, your home, your job, and all the things in your life that really matter. Then rejoice in all you have.

Are you are tired of trying to keep up with the Joneses? Love Your Life, Not Theirs will show you how to quit comparing and start living today. Order your copy of Love Your Life, Not Theirs today!

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